How Carrier Law Saved Me from Derailing
“I left my ‘real career’ to care for both my parents with dementia over the last few years.
Throughout that time, there were many moments of being at a loss, feeling the isolation/stress of being a sole caretaker, asking myself how can I keep doing this, and telling myself I was ‘the engine that could’…to keep going.
I reflect back now, and I do not have any regrets taking care of my father/mother up until 2 months before my father’s passing. After all, he had always taken care of me up into and past his death. It certainly was a rough stressful road, but he always said ‘he was lucky’ pertaining to me caring for him. I only gave back one half of what he gave me in my life.
During those last months, I didn’t know where to turn. I received bad advisement from a local attorney’s office that seemingly specialized in elder’s needs, only to come to the realization that they were not ‘specialists’ at all. I spent unnecessary income hitting brick walls, and felt alone in this long, difficult estate planning process with all the facets it entails.
Thankfully, all of you showed up at a time where I felt like ‘the engine that could’ was ready to derail.
Although you didn’t know my father, he was a very good man – everyone who knew him loved him. He had ‘good character’ and lived his life that way. In working with all of you, I saw those characteristics in each of you.
The let’s get it done work ethic, the unruffled and patient calmness in stressful situations, the genuine heartfelt caring, the gentle voices of support/reason, and strong advocation for those in need, big hearts, good people, a helpful hand, a general tenacity for what is right, a warm smile, and a good laugh when you need it most in a trying situation.
I wanted to express how thankful I am for each one of you. I thank you for all your hard work, guidance, and support you have provided.
Special thanks to Chris, Kris, Georgia, and Mindy. I truly do not know what I would have done without all of you.
You all are the best and have been so kind to me, I cannot thank you enough.”
– Liz Licari and parents
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